Luke 11:17

​“Therefore, if you are offering your gift at the altar and there (remember) that your brother or sister has something against (you), leave your gift there in front of the altar. First (go) and be (reconciled) to them; then (come) and offer your gift."

              Matthew 5:23-24 

An unforseen argument can break out (erupt) in an instant.

 If you're not (on your guard) something (unexpected) can arise and divide you, a friend, a best friend, even a (family).

Relationships that have been built on 20+ years can be destroyed in a minute if your not careful. 

Some of you are going through this now. Holding back and fighting that small still voice (the Holy Spirit) telling you to humble yourself and reach out to someone you (know) you have been resisting. 

So, carefully watch (be on your guard) what you allow to emotionally effect you, when someone hurts you, especially verbally. 

"Every Kingdom that fights against itself will be destroyed. And a family1 that fights against itself will break apart."

Luke 11:17