Proverbs 12:17

​ Be yourself, if you water yourself down to please others or to fit in or not offend anyone you lose your (identity). It's much easier to love yourself when you are being yourself.

when you want to (please) people you tell them what they want to hear, 
When you want to (help) people, you tell them the truth..you choose!
              (Proverbs 12:17)